Grieving and Death
By Sister Cecelia The projected death toll at the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic prompted me to read some books about death: A Grief Observed by C. S. Lewis and The Liturgy of Death by Father Alexander Schmemann. When someone we love and live closely with passes on, there will always be a time of grieving. It might even take a while before we can take in the loss, but the sadness will come. It is frequently hard to imagine that we won’t always feel this way. If our loved one has been suffering a lot, it is good that the suffering is over and the loved one has reached the unending happiness of being with God. It helps us on one level to believe in the life of happiness promised us with our infinitely good God, but it is still very painful for us who remain in this life to carry on. And it takes time. That is what I gleaned from Lewis’s book. Father Schmemann’s expressed hope was that we could understand how our attitudes have changed through the centuries so that we