New Skete Monasteries News

  By Sister Cecelia There is a saying that things come in threes.   Not long ago, Sr. Patricia and I were involved in a car accident. We were not hurt, but the vehicle was totaled. When I learned that two of our parishioners had also had their cars hit quite recently, we could all sympathize with one another. In theory we know we can die at any moment, but this accident made me realize just how vulnerable we all are. What goes through our minds at the time and in the days that follow? For me, I felt exceptionally blessed, not just because neither we nor the other driver were physically hurt, but that many people came to our aid in whatever way they could. I know that not everyone has the same experience. So, what enables some to be so giving and others to seem to turn a blind eye, so to speak, to the needs of others? Haven’t we all been given some abilities to be able to love others, to freely give of ourselves? When the scribe or lawyer asked Jesus what he needed to do ...

  By Karen Gladstone   Whether it was your 20th New Skete Pilgrimage or your first, everyone was welcomed! For many, this annual event is a tradition that gives individuals and families the opportunity to come together from near and far to share in a special day of community.      It was perfect August weather: warm, dry, and not a cloud in the sky. The thin breeze barely shook the pop-up tents that dotted the circular drive surrounding the Transfiguration Chapel. Their shade provided welcome cover for volunteers, guests, and baked goods alike.     The hot sun shone on the procession of pilgrims, clergy, and choir members as they made their way from the lush meditation garden to the coolness of the Holy Wisdom church for Liturgy.   A common sentiment heard throughout this day was “Being at New Skete brings me such peace…as soon as I start the drive up the road, I feel a calmness.”   It’s as if New Skete itself is granting permission...

 The week of July 14th, Br. Christopher, Sr. Cecelia, and Carl Patka, a chapel community member, traveled to Phoenix, Arizona to attend the 21st All-American Council of the Orthodox Church in America. The reasons for a Council of the Church are many. One that affected us specifically as monastics was a request to report what we had done for ourselves and the rest of humanity in the previous three years since the last council. We also were asked to describe our plans for the next three years. Since many areas of church life were giving their reports, the three Stavropegial monastic communities were requested to keep their reports to only five minutes each for the Monks of New Skete, the Nuns of New Skete, and St Tikhon’s. Br. Christopher gave his spoken report first, and it follows. I’m grateful for the opportunity to share briefly with you a bit of the pulse of our life at New Skete, focusing on the monks’ community. We are taking seriously the challenge to create a viable future f...

 By Brother Theophan We live in an age of unprecedented distraction, our inner worlds often resembling a noisy, crowded ecosystem of competing anxieties, looping memories, and a relentless inner narrator. Fragmentation is now the norm—we’re pulled in a dozen directions at once. But what if this isn’t a personal or moral failing? What if it’s simply the natural condition of an unregulated mind and a numb heart—and there exists a reliable, experience-proven path, understood by both ancient wisdom and modern science, to bring harmony to the chaos? In the late 18th century, a monumental anthology of spiritual texts known as the Philokalia (literally, the Love of the Beautiful) was published in Venice. Compiled from the writings of ancient Christian contemplatives, it was never intended for monastics alone, but to make the existential truths of Christianity accessible to everyone. As Metropolitan Kallistos Ware (of blessed memory) observed, the Philokalia’s ultimate aim is to awaken...

  A continuation of interesting dog names By Ida Williams When Turkey’s owner contacted me about scheduling training for their new puppy, Goblet, all I could think was: Are they setting the Thanksgiving table? Three years ago, I wrote an article titled Gus from Accounting and Other Interesting Dog Names . Since then, we've seen over 300 more dogs come through training, and with the return of Turkey—now joined by Goblet—I thought it was time for another round of name highlights. Animal and Plant Names In addition to Turkey, we’ve welcomed dogs with names like Bear, Bee, Birdie, Cricket, Foxy, Gazelle, and Wren. Plant-inspired names are equally popular, including Aspen, Buttercup, Cedar, Daisy, Holly, Iris, Ivy, and Juniper. Food-Inspired Names Food names remain a trend, though perhaps not as strong as before. We've met dogs named Apple, Babka, Ginger, Honey, Pepper (aka Pepsi), Spaghetti, Sugar, Taco (aka Taco Lion), Tuna, and Waffles. Tuna and Waffles—sounds like ...

  Part 1 By Ralph Karow   Last month one of my closest friends for over 40 years entered life eternal. John was only a few months younger than me and was diagnosed with early-onset dementia 5 years ago. I was having weekly “facetime” calls with him and sadly watched him fade away during that time. Calls for the past few months were only possible with his wife as a go-between. His slide from home to hospice came on rather suddenly and unexpectedly. Also unexpected is that I feel closer to him now that he’s passed on than I have in probably the past 10 years. I’m saying 10 years because that’s when I think I started noticing him becoming more irritable, dissatisfied, and possibly even a little disenchanted. Things like that don’t end a connection like ours, but they do add an element of concern and desire to get to the root of whatever was bugging him and fix it. To remove the discord from the harmony we used to share. I spent the past year putting together a book like...